If you’re trying to conceive, you know the two-week wait. That’s the stretch between ovulation, insemination, or an embryo transfer and the day you can finally take a pregnancy test. After weeks of tracking, timing, and appointments, there’s suddenly nothing left to do but wait. For many people, that brings anxiety, overthinking every symptom, and a lot of second-guessing.
In this essay, Charlotte counselor Ginny Lupka, who specializes in infertility and reproductive mental health, offers practical, compassionate ways to get through the two-week wait:
Ground your nervous system with simple stretches, breathwork, and present-moment exercises
Distract yourself (on purpose) with friends, hobbies, trips, and the home project you’ve been putting off
Notice what you can control to ease the feeling of being stuck on the TTC merry-go-round
Nourish yourself with sleep, movement, sunshine, and the care you may have been putting off
Do some good in your community as a way to find meaning during a season that can feel powerless
The goal isn’t a two-week wait with zero anxiety. It’s finding a few moments of peace and giving yourself grace along the way. Whether you’re trying on your own or going through IUI or IVF, these strategies can help you feel a little more grounded.
Looking for support through infertility or the two-week wait? Ginny Lupka Counseling offers in-person sessions in Charlotte, NC and virtual sessions across North Carolina, South Carolina, and Missouri.
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